Saturday, June 13, 2009

Positivity Takes Will

We meet thousands of people each year. And it’s for sure that everybody has some impact on you. Some first impressions are correct, while some change with time.

You’re born empty-handed, and would leave this world in the same way. However, in the meanwhile, all that happens is give and take.

Everything happening to you is your fate, every person you meet around was meant to, as per your fate…

Then, if everything’s so well planned by the God Almighty, what do you have to do about it? Let the days pass by as they come? No! in this give-and-take, there should be more Give Than Take from your side. You have to pass on one simple message to every person you meet ever!... And that li’l message is Positivity…

Has somebody ever said to you, “You can say it easily, but it takes guts to face it boss!” Well, it isn’t really too difficult when something wrong is happening around you.

It has to happen as it’s your fate. What’s difficult actually is not just to face it, but to face it Positively!

Of people who commit suicides are probably the ones with too high guts, but those guts could’ve been used for something better, for life….maybe that’s why most of us consider them as weak… All that they ever went wrong in, was the way of Facing it. It was not POSITIVE…that’s the word!

That’s the word in my appeal that I would want Everyone to cling on to forever.

It is indeed difficult to take things positively as they come, when you’re in deep s**t. Only people outside can suggest you to do that, never your own self! But I would say, give it a try…

“Don’t take life too seriously, you’ll never get out of it alive!!” is something I’d once heard, and is true indeed. When you’re not gonna get outta it alive, why the fuss about the petty things!

What issues might you have in life?? :-

# I don’t like this thing about him/her? (You cant help it boss! It’s you who are related to him/her ultimately, and besides, you are not perfect either!)

# I don’t like the way life is treating me!! (Boss! It’s your life, treat it the way you want it to be!! Life treats you the way you treat yourself!!)

# I don’t know why my life’s going on the wrong way!!? (If you know what’s wrong and which way is right, go ahead!! Don’t whine)

# I don’t know what fate has in store for me ahead!:( (You don’t need to know it anyway! Do what makes you happy! Even if you tumble down you’ll know why you did!)

Pass on the positivity to everyone you meet…

Sick of your boss? Can't help, join elsewhere or try to have fun at his back, yet keep him all flattered and buttered up & happy… :P

Confused about your career? You know very well, what all you Can't be doing, and Don’t!! :P

Pissed off with the interference of your beloved/relatives? Well it’s in their name, ‘loved’ & ‘relate’!! Try whatever, you can’t live smiling without them! …

So no fuss, no negativity! Nothing is of use! Things are meant to happen! They will! All You need to do is be more positive. All it takes is your will!

Enjoy every moment!

Do what you REALLY feel like doing!

Don’t stop yourself as long as it doesn’t harm any other living being!

Most important of all, Keep :)


  1. i loved this post coz u have explained positivity in a very light-hearted way. this is something which we all take for granted- we all know we have to be positive but do we ever put it into practice??
    Half of our lifetime is spent away whining about everything in our life, about what we don't have in our life, about how things never go right etc.
    But shweta we are all mortals- it's very difficult to change the way we are. A person who is actally optimistic by nature is blessed.

  2. We only defined the word Blessed. something that is gifted. that is not easily acquired. and that is what we should aspire to have!! :)
    being mortals is fine, dying with a feeling of self satisfaction is wat evry1 shud crave for!!!
    and der cums in the positivity building-up in you...
    Thanks for the comment!

  3. that moment of death, when the whole life seems flashing by in front of your eyes and when we realise we lived a life of positivity n happiness, there cannot be a higher satisfaction in leavung the world..
    yes that's what we should crave for!!..

    i am loving this blog of urs.. happy to follow it now :)

  4. Thats so sweet of you...
    thanks a tonne...
    i'll keep writing in more and more!
    will try to be better by the day...

  5. Lovely post! ..i cudn't say it any better :)
    many more happy writings to u, cheers!