Sunday, December 21, 2008

We must give things a try….

(heavily loaded stuff) (read at your own risk) :P

You cannot change something that you’ve ruined. In life… You always regret about some things done by you to some nice people you know. Of course you must’ve been sorry or guilty about such things later on, after months or even years in many cases. But never be in despair. Because the good news is, ANYTHING and everything is repairable. If you’ve been unreasonably rude to someone, or even for a valid reason so; when you’ve abused or cursed someone on the face, or hated someone to the core for some period of time. If you’ve been too selfish and realizing now that it was a very mean act, and thousands of such silly acts that you’ve been doing from past few years, over and over again with different people in your life, your mom, dad, bro, sis, best friends, and others; the list of deeds and their victims goes on and on. All I wanna convey is that it IS possible to repair these losses, if you REALLY wish to. Never look back is what we’ve heard till now. However, I would like to say “DO turn back!!” Seeing what you’ve lost, certainly, is not going to make you feel great, but if that loss is made by your own hands, it is alterable.
Its kinda absurd, I know, to think about looking back and repairing the stuff that’s already been screwed up and even forgotten (if not forgiven!) by the concerned people. But if and when you give it a thought, sometime in life, maybe a few years later, you’ll yourself wish, for things to be good again. Nobody wishes to appear as a rude or self-centered person in front of the world. So, at the end of the day, it’s these feelings that you would get….”I Wish, I could….turn back time…..”
Of course you can!! Nothing is wrong if you heal a wound. Do away with your egos. They’ll take you nowhere but closer to your evil side!! I read it somewhere, “Apologising doesn’t mean that YOU are wrong and the other is right…it only means that you value the relationship much more than your ego!!!”
Now, give a thought, recall from your memories… if there’s Anything that’s making your face :( from :), DO consider it. Give it thought for a moment and think what if you corrected your mistake(or whatever it was, maybe right according to you at that point of time when you did it ) and change things back to the good of both (all) of you. Call him/her up, whoever it is, bro, sis, friend,… and make the two of you happy!!!!
You’re both happy when its all solved. None of you is content when there’s this life-long cold war, or no realization of the fact that you hurt them at some point of time. After all, each incidence is a chapter in the diary of your life. And who would like a chapter to be ended with grudges and frowns and disappointments and regrets. Make Your Diary the best of all. Filled with happy pages and thus, a beautiful story to leave when you go.
It’ll bring a smile to your face! Go ahead!! :)

Thursday, December 11, 2008


Went through a li’l thought process the other day. Yet again! :P
“Your thoughts become things” is what I read in a book yesterday. It’s so true. I’ve been quite in the frustoo mode from a few days.
Always being the one who cracks non-stop jokes in the group and getting the crowd to smiles, often leaves you not-so-having-fun actually. Next time notice the person who plays this role in your group. Every group has one such guy who would be there always to bring smiles, always cracking jokes. Believe me, that person would be one of the deepest thinkers(or with loads of stuff in mind, whether sad or unhappy) in your group. “Tum itna jo muskura rahe ho, kya gam hai jisko chhupa rahe ho” is a meaningful song indeed!!
Anyway, at the end of the day, it’s me with myself, discussing it all in this li’l head of mine! Discussing things about the day, the people around, the people away : ( , the people I can’t stand, and the people I really miss.
I am also like just anybody else out here. The negative part of things has been attracting the magnets of my mind more from a few days. People who I can’t stand and why, why are people like that, why is this happening, etc. , are a few of the negative thoughts that have been creeping in my mind from quite some time now.
But it really helps you in no ways whining, complaining about the things around or even people around. If I complain, I bother myself by thinking so much over the stuff I dislike. On the contrary, if I ignore, I’m far away from the negatives around me, which are better not realized. Instead, it’s better to focus on “what I want to happen?”. It’s a universal fact guys. All of you reading! It’s a request!
Concentrate daily on “what you really want outta something, outta life!?” and all you’ll do in return for this thought is, work on it and so you’ll be more focused on the positives, rather than the negations in your thoughts, which go like,…”I hate it when…”, or…”I don’t want this to….” …!
Believe me! Thinking that(-ve) way!?? It sucks!! Of course your mind can’t stay blank. The thought process keeps going all day. Feels great when you really focus on the positives. You feel better. You suddenly know what you’ve gotta do with yourself and you’re then busy working on it rather than complaining about others and other petty issues going on in your so-happening life : )
Everybody has problems, big or small. The difference is in the way you take them and go through. Make things better, not worse! Think and be positive and stay alive! : ) keep smiling. There’s SURELY ATLEAST one person who loves it when you do that!!
Remember kareina’s dialogue of Jab We Met “life mein jo b hum REAL mein chahte hain, ACTUAL mein life se humko wo hi milta hai!!” Think about it! :)
Phew! Enough of my gyaan!

A huge time lag...

Had been pretty busy with the college fest for quite a few days now. It was fun. From giving the whole college anew look with the banners and other theme stuff, to giving ourselves a whole new look after letting down our hair in the party in the end; it's all pinned up in the memories of college. Amazing fun!
Management as well as cultural events. Few most memorable days of ITM. Working with several people was another awesome experience. Anyway, it has come to an end now and this week brings in loads of assignments and presentations to catch up on.
Bizeeeee beeee again ... :)